it's been days since the last time i visited TeenHelp forum (http://www.teenhelp.org), as usual i search for teens that i can help by advising them, but then I noticed something .. i've never tried advising teens who cut/hurt themselves as i don't understand why they do that, so i started a thread asking an explanation of this "depression trend" ..
from the answers that i got, i've concluded that there's no exact explanation but one of them said:From personal experience, I can tell you that I did it because I had so much guilt inside and I was so ashamed of some of my actions (hurting people I care about) that i thought the only way to make up for it was by hurting myself. and here's my observation :
nowadays, most teen can't take any pressure, easy life has made them easy to crack under pressure, what they need is "trusted people" to be around them, accompany them and guided them to get out of the pressure. Everyone knows that teens are labile yet no one has guided them to get out of this pressure, to get through ups and downs, to get through this chaotic world where money and popularity have become the only way to get on top ..
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